Tuesday, April 13, 2010
How to Use Your Intuition in Business
Our gut feelings are ingrained in us. They are what primitive man used for survival. And these feelings are still within us.
We can choose to listen to that little voice that tells us when something seems fishy:
For musicians: When you have a client that wants to book you, but your gut feeling tells you, "This bride is going to be trouble." Or when you're in contact with an instrument buyer or seller and your gut feeling tells you, "This person is running a scam." Or when the booking agent has a dream job for you and your gut tells you, "This job is a myth and this agent is a weasel." Or when the flutist across town wants to team up with you and your gut feeling tells you, "That person will be impossible to work with."
For brides: When you are ready to hire a wedding coordinator, but your gut says, “This person is not going to let me make any decisions.” Or when you talk to any wedding vendor and you feel that maybe, just maybe, their services don’t match up to all their hype. Or maybe you get the feeling that the minister, as kind as he is, will put everyone to sleep at your wedding ceremony.
For everyone: When you doubt that an email inquiry from a client or a service provider is legit, you’re probably correct.
Heed your intuition! Even if you have absolutely no physical evidence that anything will go wrong, your intuition is trying to protect you.
For every plane crash, there are always a handful of people who say, "I just had a feeling that I should change flights, so I did." There is a fantastic book on the subject called, "The Gift of Fear". Specifically, it tells women how to listen to our intuition to prevent physical harm from killers and rapists. But the book is really for everyone, teaching us the signs to look out for when someone is not whom they make themselves out to be.
But I digress. I believe that in business, when we aren't so hungry for money--to land a big paying gig, to sell an instrument, to get a great deal on a used instrument, to find the cheapest wedding service, to close the business deal--we listen more to this little protective voice. It's really okay to say, "No thank you" when you think something is amiss. Later, you might find out that you were absolutely correct to do so. You don’t need to justify your decision.
Celtic Harp Music by Anne Roos
Author of "The Musician's Guide to Brides: How to Make Money Playing Weddings" published by Hal Leonard Books
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I’d love to hear your thoughts about how you have used intuition in your business and personal life. Please add to the discussion.